Thomas Wayne Aube

December 4, 1961 - November 1, 2013

12/04/1961 - 11/01/2013

Thomas Tom W. Aube, 51, sighed his last breath peacefully and blissfully at 10:40PM, November 01, 2013. Tom spent his last days at the Kindred Riverpointe Rehabilitation Care Center in Virginia Beach, Virginia where he received exemplary care. It was a good end to bravely facing a painful and frustrating ordeal with a very difficult and debilitating case of liver cancer. As a man carrying the burden of imminent death, Tom faced his diagnosis philosophically and with much dignity and bravery. Tom was born in Connecticut the son of Thomas and Barbara J. Aube. He was a talented hockey player growing up and had the opportunity to meet and get valuable coaching from NHL hockey legend Gordie Howe. After working all over the east coast he settled in Virginia Beach where he began studying blues guitar with local guitarist Jimmy Williams. Tom and Jimmy soon became great friends and Tom worked with Jimmy in several bands touring throughout the southeast. Tom was an avid supporter of live music and loved playing the guitar and listening to the Blues and American Roots Music. Tom was also an avid golfer and pool player and enjoyed many good times golfing and shooting pool with his good friend Ray Flora. He was very thankful to his friend Robert Ryan who opened his heart and home to him until he was taken Home. Tom was also a friend of Bill W’s. He was an inspiration to many and his unique presence as well as the kindness and support he showed those struggling will be missed by all of his friends. Tom is survived by his mother, Barbara J. Aube of Virginia Beach and his good friend Tammy Weidemoyer, who was by his side continuously throughout his ordeal, and a host of other relatives and friends. He was predeceased by his father Thomas and sister Pamela J. Jenkins. Also remembering Tom will be the many local musicians and friends whose lives he touched. Tom always opened his wallet and gave alms to the poor. If you would like to offer a few dollars when you see a person living on the street and struggling to get sober that would make Tom happy. A memorial service will be held November 16, 2013 at 11:00 am in Altmeyer Funeral Home, Maestas Chapel, 1801 Baltic Ave, Virginia Beach. Condolences may be offered to the family at

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Denise S. Wells
7 years ago

A very special, very bright light, a beacon, has dimmed…but Tom, your light will remain in the hearts of those you’ve touched with your inspiring grace. You are very loved, and will be very missed… until we shall meet again, my sweet, dear friend…

God bless you Tom,

Love D.

melinda atkins
7 years ago

he was a wonderful man full fo joy and laughter. he always made me laugh he was loved dearly by alot of people and thank him for giving my sister the love that she needed he is now in the hands of our lord smiling down at us. and one day we will be able to see his wonderful face that would brightend up the room he was a loveing person and will be missed but thank god for letting me met such a wonderful person never forgoten.

james tolleyJT
7 years ago

I want to extend my condolences to Tom’s family and rest in peace with our dear Lord, Tom, my friend.

Mark Buran
7 years ago

My thoughts and prayers go the family, especially my friend Barb. Remember all the good!

Jimmy Williams
7 years ago

Rest in peace my friend and brother. The world is a darker place without you. You will always live in our hearts.

Diane Coon
7 years ago

Rest in peace Tom. I’m sorry I missed you when you came to CT, I would have loved to see you. I heard you had a great visit with my family. I know you were a great man and the world is missing a wonderful person. Say “Hi” to my dad and everyone else up there. Love you, Diane <3

jim coon
7 years ago

Rest in peace my cousin who i will miss talking with.we had alot of laughs and great times together in ct. Miss u always

Tammy Weidemoyer
7 years ago

Rest in peace, my best friend. Gone to soon, will miss you forever.

Judy C Zawadski
7 years ago

So sad to leave us at such a young age, Tommy. Rest in peace, my cousin.

Susan Flora
7 years ago

Tom rest in peace. you will be missed. I extend my sincere condolences to all family and friends.

Marji Bachman
7 years ago

Tom the blessings you bestowed on me I will be so forever greatful. You have touched us all. Thank you for bringing my love in music back. Thank you for being a wonderful friend. Thank you for bringing me back to where I could sing again after 20 yeárs. I hope your new journey is awesome we will love you and miss you forever. Thank you for your love of AA and helping others. Goodbye my friend Marji

Ray Flora
7 years ago

Tom was a very good friend of mine that I knew for about 7 years.He was always there for me and willing to help me in any way he could. He spent alot of time helping me at work.Tom and I also shared many laughs and good times together. Playing golf, shooting on the pool league together, and spending many nights going to see his good friend jimmy’s band play with him, me and my sister Susie.I offer my condolences and prayers to his Mom Barbara,and all family and friends as well. Tom will be dearly missed