Betty Upton-Scott

January 22, 1938 - August 22, 2008

01/22/1938 - 08/22/2008

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Service
Wednesday September 03, 2008
1:30 pm
Central Baptist Church
701 W. Olney Road
Norfolk, VA 23517
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Betty Upton-Scott, 70, of the 700 block of Mount Holly Muse, passed away August 22, 2008 in Knoxville, TN. She was born in Princess Anne County to the late Mary and Calvin Upton, Jr. Betty attended Princess Anne High School, was a member of Central Baptist Church in Norfolk, the Queen Mum of the Victorian Angels; the Virginia Beach chapter of the Red Hat Society. She was the key organizer of the Patrick Henry Elementary School reunion for her graduating elementary class. Betty helped many brides as a bridal consultant with Hechts department store. Betty was a beloved mother, grandmother, great-grandmother, sister, aunt, friend and Queen Mum. She will be dearly missed. Betty is preceded in death by her husband Charles H. Scott and her daughter Janice Leigh Bass, brother Calvin Upton, III and sister Margaret Gregory. Left to cherish her memory are her son’s; Calvin D. Scott and Charles H. Scott, Jr., seven grandchildren and one great-granddaughter, siblings Mary Lee McKelvey, Dorothy Myers and John Upton. A memorial service will be conducted Wednesday, September 3, 2008 at 1:30pm in the Central Baptist Church 701 W. Olney Road Norfolk. Additionally, the family will be hosting a private reception in the Westin Virginia Beach Town Center the evening of September 3rd from 7-9pm located at 4535 Commerce St. Virginia Beach, VA 23462, Online condolences may be shared with the family at altmeyer.com
Donations can be made to the American Cancer Society at 4416 Expressway Drive, Virginia Beach, Virginia 23452.

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Shirley Jackson
8 years ago

Betty was a very special Red Hat Lady to me over the years. Each time I came to Chesapeake we met and laughed and talked. I am sure God is pleased to have such a very wonderful Angel in his heaven.Queen Shirley

May & J.V. Upton
8 years ago

Betty was very special. She was key in keeping the family and extended family in touch and sharing family history. So many memories we shared. With a heavy heart our most sincere sympathy.

SHERRY ELMS
8 years ago

Betty-

You have been a dear friend to me for many years. You played the leading role in introducing Jon to me and helped in making our wedding a beautiful occassion as you always did! We have been so blessed to have you in our lives and will miss you greatly. Our thoughts and prayers go to all of your dear friends and family. May you rest in a peaceful place.

Love,

Sherry, Jon, Lauren & Taylor Elms

Lillie Bell Foster
8 years ago

Betty,

I will truly miss you in so many ways. You have left a warm spot in my heart. I send my best wishes to your family. My prayers are with them.

John Myers
8 years ago

Charles and Dean:

I felt fortunate to get to know my Aunt Betty better in the last 10 years since your Uncle Carey and Aunt Tony retired to Virginia. She was a funny and giving aunt and was loved by all her nephews and nieces. We will all miss her and are sorry for your loss.

God Bless,

John Myers

Jean, Steve, and Kevin Royalty
8 years ago

Dean and Scotty,

Your mom became a beloved aunt to our son, Kevin. We take comfort knowing that while she has left many behind that love her, she is now with many that love her in eternity. We shall see her again. Until then,”Always in my heart.”

DIANE BEYER
8 years ago

dear deal & scott

I am so sorry to hear about your mom. I tried calling her two weeks before, but her ans mach came on. I guess she was in tenn.

she was a fun loving person & will be missed. always diane

Priscilla Lane
8 years ago

Dear Dean,Scotty and family

I know you all loved your mother very much. When I would visit Virginia Beach your mother shared with me her family stories. I am so sorry she has passed away.

I will keep you all in my prayers. I can not make it to the service.

My family will make a donation in Betty’s name to the cancer society.

Love always,

Priscilla

Sandy Storherr
8 years ago

Dear Family and Friends of Betty, the real Angel Queen now. She was a very dear friend of mine, I live on the Eastern Shore of VA, and was always welcome to her monthly luncheons.

I have been trying for three days to get into this website and finally did. I was in a state of shock when I saw her obit in the Pilot. My sincere condolences to all of you, I know how you feel, she helped me a great deal to get thru the accidental death of my husband recently. I loved that gal an awful lot and have all of you on the prayer chain at church, Betty too. Love and God Bless, Sandy Storherr, Queen Foxy Mame of the Femme Fatales

Evelyn Richardson
8 years ago

Dear Lisa, Scotty and Dean,

So very sorry for your loss. We her friends have lost such a dear special friend and she will live forever in our hearts. My visits to Virginia Beach, eating at Harold’s and walking at Mt Trashmore will never be the same.

My thoughts and prayers are with all of you and the other members of your family.

Joan Thigpen
8 years ago

Dear Lisa, Scotty, Dean and Madison,

I have known your Mom, Grandmother and Great Grandmother for more than 5 years and in that time I have never meet anyone that could make you feel so very special. She just had a special quality that made everyone feel at ease with her and she made you feel like she had known you for a very long time. She never met a stranger and her special little phrase, “Always in my Heart” was just the way she was. I will miss her more than these words can say and she will always be in my heart. My thoughts and prayers are with you. I look forward to seeing all of you on Wednesday.

Dorothy Summann
8 years ago

Hello Betty’s family. I was shocked to hear of Betty’s sudden passing. She was a terrific Queen Mum of the Victorian Angels of which I am a member. She was truly a charming lady and will be missed.

Fran Testorff
8 years ago

I met Betty one year ago when I join the Victorian Angels. Right from the first meeting Betty made me feel I had been a memeber from the beginning. She was a great Queen Mum and will be missed greatly by all who knew her.

My Deepest Sympathy to All

David
8 years ago

I worked with Betty years ago at Miller & Rhoads and then Hechts and she was always a fun and energetic lady. We would exchange greetings ever since when I found the occaision to be in the store or we ran into each other otherwise. I am so sorry for your loss and just wanted to let you know that there were many people outside the family that your Mother/Grandmother touched during her years on this earth. Thanks for sharing her with us!

Beverly Moore Williams
8 years ago

I’m very sorry about Bettys passing she and I were friends in the 50’s and 60’s. I knew her mom and dad as well when they lived on the five milesnear the courthouse. I have a snapshot of her when she was about 18 years old, if you want a copy call me, the number is 757 467 1617 ,once again I’m very sorry,

Beverly

Ginnie Dempewolf
8 years ago

Lisa,

I am so sorry I could not be there in person to say goodbye. I loved Grandma Betty so very much. She always treated Kenny and me like we were her own. We will miss greatly. She was a wonderful person. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

Love,

Ginnie

Tenah Trull
8 years ago

My heart is so heavy and hurts. Betty was so SPECIAL. She truly never met a stranger. She would not close our chapter because a new member was a friend we had not met. I came to one of the first Red Hat meetings to show the angel jewelry I make. Before Mary Sandias and I left the meeting, she introduced us as new members. Mary was whispering to me–Did we join?–neither of us knew but—-We were honored to be Victorian Angels. I was so blessed to have Betty as a true friend. My symphony and love goes out to you. Betty was so proud of her family and that GREAT-GRANDDAUGHTER!! I feel it was also a blessing she was with family during her illness. I know she is watching all of us and wants us to know she has peace and no pain. We will be with her again and she probably already has a few angels with red halos! Love to all, Tenah Trull

Carol Mantel
8 years ago

My husband and I fondly remember Betty from many years ago when Dean lived on Wilchester Glen Drive and she would come over to babysit. Our garages were across from each other and she would sit in the drive way and watch the children play. We would gravitate over to her and talk. She was always so pleasant. She had a great attitude and a great sense of humor. Even though we had not seen her in years we could easily recall her personality from the pictures in her memorial. She was a very lovely lady.

Ken Kesterson
8 years ago

No one will ever replace my adopted grandma in my heart. I will miss you and I am saying a prayer for Lisa, Dean and Scotty. Sorry that I can’t be there to say goodbye in person, but the Navy keeps me away. Love Always, Kenny

Sue Browning
8 years ago

Oh how you are going to be missed.Remember our laugh over the bread!You came into my life 2002 as Queen Mum and oh what a QUEEN you were.Your saying “Always In My Heart”,now you will always be remembered in so many peoples hearts.

My Deepest Sympathy goes out to all your family.Dean Scotty,Lisa and our Pink Hatter,Madison,this special person touched so many lives.I know you are proud to call her Mom,Grand-mother and Great-Grand-Mother.

Carolyn Felts
8 years ago

To Betty’s family. Betty will be greatly missed. She was a lovely lady and leader. I have not been a member of Victorian Angels for too long; however, I have enjoyed knowing Betty so much. She will be an unforgetable person. God keep you all in His Care at this sad time of your life. Carolyn Felts

Donnie Hipple
8 years ago

To Betty’s family.Betty Lou and i entered 1st grade togather on sept. 1943. I sat behind her for the first year. We stayed in touch through the years. I was honored to be on her reunion group for Patrick Henry. The last time i saw Betty i said “you look tired” she said ” i am going to Lisa’s for a rest. Yes, she is now at rest with the Lord. Betty will Always be in my heart. Luv ya, Donnie.

Michael Yates
8 years ago

To Friends & Family of Betty Upton-Scott:

Our sympathies for your lost and know that Betty is in our hearts & prayers. She was a fun loving woman who managed to raise two sons with little help. All of our love and prayers for her family.

Michael & Soncha Yates

charles and lavelle powell
8 years ago

we are still in a state of shock.

it feels as if we have lost a membr

of our family. betty has been very

close to us since she was nine years old. we shall miss her so much

calvin daughtergaleand pat
8 years ago

we are sorry to hear about our aunt bettylou passing away.even we was not close to her,she was always there for us.we are going to miss the wonderful email from her. prayers with the family.buddy daughter

Carey and Dorothy Myers
8 years ago

With heavy hearts filled with sadness, we express our sincere sympathy.

Love

Uncle Carey and Aunt Tony

Pat Glass
8 years ago

You are all in my heart! Betty INSPIRED me!! I have never met a more unique woman. Her radiance warmed a room the moment she entered. My Granddaughter, Ariel walked in Miss Betty’s ruby red slippers and wore her beautiful red hat with the trailing vail when she came to our Victorian Angel luncheons. She made my pink hatter feel like a royal Princess! How I loved our Queen Mum! Many Blessings to all of you.

Pat Glass, Proud Victorian Angel